Archive for July, 2008

Quicky

I’m on my third week of being in Italy and I feel like I’m getting used to it.  Except I’m still constantly exhausted… who knew playing with a 6 year-old could be so tiring.  That said, a few things before I take my afternoon nap:

Apparently, shaving cream for women does not exist in Italy (this was confirmed to me by Stefania along with her now all-too-familiar curious “wtf are you talking about” looks).  The fam & I went to a giant supermarket today, which made me think FINALLY, they HAVE to have it here if I’m ever going to find any.  But there it was, another shelf full of nothing but mens’ shaving cream.  I bought a can.

Stef also confirmed to me today that she does not in fact cook horse meat in any of her meals.  I am relieved, albeit still sorry for little Italian babies.

Can someone explain to me why it always seems like childrens’ favorite toy or doll is always the rattiest of them all?  Little G has plenty of nice dolls, yet her most favorite- the one she takes everywhere, the one that always beats the other dolls at games, etc. etc.- is this disgusting, demented looking plush cat, of course with the most tangled ratty fur, off-white discoloration and broken arm.  Her name is “Princess, Queen of Hugs.”

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Sorting Out

A few things I am alright without, thus far:
24-hour Whataburger (though I fear this one will soon be transfered to the 2nd list)
Texas heat and humidity
My Volkswagen GTI
Working in an office
Mexican food
Partying
Ice at my leisure
a bigger paycheck
a bigger wardrobe
Shopping at my leisure
BBQ
my fluffy queen bed
my own house
a dryer

A few things I am struggling without:
Seeing my friends all the time
Speaking with friends & family
My musical instruments
Air conditioning
and, iPhone.  GUH.

So far, the two biggest downsides about Lecce have been this:
1.  For some reason, my Sonicare toothbrush (those who have one will understand the weight of this) refuses to charge.  The amazing thing is that it is STILL WORKING, after like what, almost 3 weeks of being without a charge?  Incredible.  I bought a regular non-electric toothbrush the other day.  My teeth feel dirtier.  Sigh.
2. MOSQUITOES.  Everywhere, all the time.  I got two giant bites this morning within only 1.5 hours of being up and about.  I can’t go sit outside and relax without being eaten alive.  I’m ready to douse myself in Off spray hourly… not kidding.

For the record, I have noted these two items specifically to demonstrate the lack of severity in each of them.  So in other words, things are pretty good.

Things keeping me happy:
Wine, daily
Olive Oil, daily
Thousand-plus year-old buildings and structures
History everywhere
Learning a new language
Constantly going to the beach
Learning a ton of new things about different culture and life every day
Ben
Pizza

Other things to note in this post:
Tonight I’m meeting up with a bunch of people (primarily Engilsh-speaking, though of different nationalities), most of whom already know or are at least acquainted with each other.  I think this will be great.

In 12 days, I am meeting Benjamin in Rome.  I am going by train, from 6am-12p, and I’m really looking forward to the journey as well.  I’ll see the Italian countryside and seaside zipping by whilst studying my language book, all the while getting nearer and nearer to one of the best cities and one of the best persons in the world.

Also, new photos are up on the Picasa.  Link is on the right navigation pane.  Enjoy.
Ciao ciao.

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Silver threads for the Pensive

A few notes before passing out:

-Having such extended contact with a child has been quite an interesting and new thing for me.  I’ve actually surprised myself at how well I’ve been handling it.  Granted, Giulia is an intelligent little girl so that makes things easier; but nonetheless, she has her fits and annoying tendencies just as any other 6 year-old would.  What’s remarkable to me is how little I’m bothered by it.  Generally, I find her quite entertaining, and I think should I ever decide to have a child of my own, this experience is going to prove of great assistance.  This evening after dinner, Stefania and I were sitting out on the porch having a cigarette, and Giulia came up to me and said, “You are the most beautiful girl in the world.”  Another little gem from her mouth happened yesterday.  We were playing with clay, and she was getting very frustrated that it wasn’t sticking together like she wanted.  She reached her limit, threw the clay down and said “Damnation!!!” and stormed out of the room.  Where on earth does she get these things from??

-Stefania, Aldo and I are becoming really good friends, and I can honestly say that I enjoy their company, and not at all simply due to the lack of other options thus far.  We understand each other for the most part, despite the necessity for an Italian-English dictionary every once in awhile, and our conversations feel meaningful.  Stefania and I have discussed how she met Aldo, how difficult it is being married to a doctor, religion, our backgrounds, and we laugh every single day.  Aldo and I discussed American and Italian politics today which proved to be slightly more challenging.  He also gave me something today- he bought two copies of Ernest Hemingway’s The Short Happy Life of Francis Macomber, with one page being in English, and the adjacent page being an Italian translation.  We plan to discuss our reading after every lunch (when he is not at the hospital).

-Yesterday, I went on my first expedition around Lecce by myself, and I found my first piece of what they refer to as “the Florence of the South.”  I was so thrilled in fact to have finally found the beauty in Lecce that I started taking photos like crazy.  My battery died about 2 blocks before reaching the gorgeous, bustling center of the city.  Still, I’m so much more excited about Lecce now.  I knew there was something I was missing, and this is it:

Click here for the full set, which also includes a few photos of my house, and a couple of little Giulia I was able to procure without her immediately grabbing the camera from me.

Tomorrow, we are going to the beach for the day.  Be ready for some amazing imagery.

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London Town

Before I arrived here in Italy, I flew from Austin to London and spent an amazing week there.  Despite London being of quite the opposite nature and setting as what I’m accustomed to (a product of Texas and California through and through), there is an energy about that city that I decidedly love.

London is a city with character.  Not warm and fuzzy and sunshiney like what I typically go for, but there is a very definable character to London town, and these very definable, almost easily-stereotyped and corresponding qualities about a city are what make up my list of favorite cities in the world.

Austin, for example, is most definitely one of them.  If there were 10 photos of 10 random places in 10 different cities, I would know which one Austin is, regardless of how concrete or how vague the photo was.  If you asked me the reason for this, I would say it’s because you can feel it, but for those of you who don’t believe in feeling (aherm, hippie haters), another way of saying this would be that Austin has such a highly unique personality, to the extent that its numerous elements– the people, the buildings, the streets, the art, the stores and restaurants, etc. — all have a common thread between them, and that is what defines the city.  It is that feel, or that look, or that unidentifiable thing that you remember about the city.

Cities that lack this trait are the ones that do not interest me.  Sorry, Houston.

Anyway, if you’ve ever spent some time in London, I bet you could pick out its photo from a pile as well.  It’s that kind of city.  Look-

Check this out for the full set.

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Semi-settled.

Well, I finally got around to setting up the self-proclaimed highly-anticipated blog, so I guess that means I’m settled enough after 1+ week of being in Europe.

I’ll begin with the most recent events, as I want to be able to recall as much detail as possible while it remains fresh in my mind:  THE 2ND DAY ITALY UPDATE.

First things first- a list (don’t act surprised) of the 3 meals (ditto) I have had thus far in Italy.  All of these are homemade by Stefania, the 30 or 40-something year-old mother I am living with.  This is also, of course, to make you instantly as jealous as possible.
1.  Wednesday Dinner:  Eggplant lasagna with a side of some sort of prosciutto-like beef slices drizzled with olive oil and shaved cheese, fresh bread, followed by a platter of various whole fruits, with grapes like I’ve never had before.  For dessert, the best tiramisu I’ve ever had in my life.
2.  Thursday Lunch:  Farfalle pasta al dente topped with cheesy-creamy tomato sauce, more fresh bread, and then fresh mozzarella and roma tomatoes sprinkled with oregano, salt, pepper, and olive oil from heaven.  I might have unconsciously closed my eyes for an extended period of time while eating that last part, jesus christ.
3.  Thursday Dinner:  Stuffed pizza with red peppers, onions, tomato sauce, cheese, gigantic slices of pepperoni and some other unidentifiable sweet meat, salad with salt and balsamic vinegar, more of the fruit tray, and more of the tiramisu, chilled.  Also, homemade (what else) Lemoncello, which got me pleasantly tipsy.

Naturally, every meal has been accompanied by the best red wine I’ve had since however many years ago in Spain.  I don’t even need to go into detail of how incredible that wine is.

Alright so, now that we’ve got that covered, documented, and sufficiently rubbed in your face, let me tell you about this child I’m teaching.  Giulia is nearly 6 years old, an only-child, and complete with unnervingly similar personality traits to the 6 year-old version of yours truly.  She not only speaks fluent English, but does it astoundingly better than the typical American of the same age.

An example, which I think might be my favorite story yet:
This evening, Giulia and I went with her parents to the athletic fields (“Daddy’s Field!”).  I was initially somewhat worried that I’d have to fake exercising, as both Stefania and Aldo are quite the sportsmen (Aldo is a bone surgeon, and is therefore overzealous about running, soccer, and pretty much every other sport in existence).  However, to my intense relief, after a quick 10-minute game of chase, Giulia wanted to go chill on the stands with one of her English workbooks (she never, ever puts these down).  After about eight repeats of “One, two, give me your shoe // three, four, open the door // etc. etc.,” she looked up at me and said, “Ashlee, we are inseparable.”  Aside from this being potentially the cutest thing a child might ever say to me, THIS ITALIAN-MOTHERTONGUED 6 YEAR-OLD EFFORTLESSLY INCORPORATED A 5-SYLLABLE ENGLISH WORD INTO A SENTENCE.

Anyway, this is just one of the many instances in which my jaw has dropped from the sheer intelligence of this kid.  She’s also spoiled rotten and has already had 2 tantrums, but I can’t really talk shit about that, considering.  Another point of endless amusement with G is that she often switches between English with a British and American accent.  Often times when I correct her on the incorrect word for something, she informs me “It’s British.  You are speaking American,” regardless of it being incorrect on both fronts.  Clever girl.

Aside from that, the parents are really nice as far as I can see.  Stefania and I have already discussed Italian designers, and Aldo gave me a really nice notebook and pen, so that he can teach me Italian if I teach him English.  At dinner tonight, he told me “This is your house, too.” which is awesome because btw, the house is OMFG GORGEOUS.  Multi-level house with I don’t know how many staircases, 3 gardens, and I get my own bathroom and bedroom with a queen bed.  All appliances are brand new and top of the line.  Original art everywhere, 2 full dining room tables and 3 dens (one each are on my floor, the bottom, which I think is never used nor inhabited by anyone else but me and the 2 cars and scooter) and I get my own patio too.

The only downside I see is that so far, what I’ve seen of Lecce has been a significant disappointment.  A number of people warned me about the uncleanliness of southern Italy, and I’ll admit that at this point, my observations serve as proof of that.  There’s plenty of wonderfully old ruins, but it almost seems as if the city government, or lack thereof, has done little to nothing to preserve or even incorporate the richness of the architecture into the overall quality of the city.  It’s not really trashy per se, it’s more as if nobody has done anything for any sort of upkeep.  Grafitti is everywhere, but it’s not like gang grafitti like we’d have in the States; it’s more along the lines of what I’ve been saying… as if no one really gives a shit and there’s no enforcement.  I did see a wall today black-spraypainted with “Giuseppe e Natalia” and giant hearts, and I cursed myself for being roped into an exercise outing unable to bring my camera.

Either way, it’s only been 2 days and I am hardly deterred.  Going into the city center to get a SIM card tomorrow morn, so we’ll see what that looks like.

A post with London pics to follow soon (and yes, it was one of the best weeks ever).  Stay tuned.

Oh, and Ciao, if I wanna be all typical about it.  PEACE.

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